During these difficult days, it is important to focus on the positive aspects of life. This applies to children just as much as adults. Teaching children to “count their blessings” not only helps them learn good manners and appreciate the world around them, it also enhances their levels of happiness. In recent years, the Chinese YMCA Primary School, which lies under the umbrella of the Association, has been actively promoting real-world education specifically developed to help children count their blessings and develop positive values.
This curriculum was originally sparked by the sudden and shocking rise in student suicide rates in recent years. Both the management of the Chinese YMCA Primary School and the parents of its students agreed that the promotion of education that embraces positive values was the key to battling these terrible student suicides. Thus, the school fast-tracked the development of a teaching plan to cultivate student positivity. With the on-going social issues, the COVID-19 pandemic and the protracted suspension of school classes this year, such a curriculum has never been more important.
Earlier this year, the school’s meticulously crafted curriculum won an award for outstanding real-world education teaching plans. We hope that this award will act as a springboard that allows the school to develop more diversified learning activities which will nurture positive values and positive attitudes to life.
Miss Chow Ka Lai, a teacher for “life education” at the Chinese YMCA Primary School says, “Many parents have observed that their children behave differently in different settings. For instance, they are polite and helpful at school, whereas they act out at home with disrespectful behaviour, rarely saying ‘please’ or ‘thank you’. Our goal is to teach children to count their blessings and show appreciation to people who make an effort on their behalf, like those who prepare meals and do laundry for them at home, and the teachers who work hard for them at school. We hope that our work will help them show gratitude through both words and actions, develop a positive attitude, and ultimately be more optimistic in life.”
Miss Chow developed a series of life education lesson plans called “Joyful Gardening and Cooking”, which teaches children how to grow, fertilise, harvest, cook and share the products of their gardening work. The lessons guide them to understand and reflect on the similarities between gardening and life in general. During the lessons, students grow white radishes and red amaranths, while also learning how to cook and share their harvest with their families and teachers. The act of gardening helps children develop a sense of responsibility, as they need to take care of plants day after day; but it also teaches them to overcome difficulties and eventually learn the spirit of commitment.
“Students are fully engaged when they start gardening; they almost always enjoy the planting process. They love sharing gardening challenges and solutions with their teachers, parent volunteers and staff members; and this further promotes team spirit”, Miss Chow continued. “A student of mine once told me that she was moved and found her eyes full of tears of joy when she sent handmade cookies to one of her teachers as a gift. I was so happy to hear that, because it meant that she had learned about gratitude and appreciation.”
Miss Chow believes that parents can extend the concepts of real-world education to the home as well. In her opinion, parents should teach their children to observe the beautiful things in life, to appreciate themselves and nature, to be generous and have the courage to persevere when faced with challenges. Parents can also pray with their children when they feel disappointed or encounter frustrations, as this may teach them to accept life’s imperfections, tolerate failure with optimism, and guide them to develop the habit of reflecting on themselves and the world.
The Joyful Gardening and Cooking curriculum recently won the First Award for Outstanding Life Education Teaching Plan (non-formal curriculum) organised by the Education University of Hong Kong.
Looking ahead, besides teaching positive values to children, the Association hopes that both adults and children will learn to treat the coronavirus pandemic as a collective challenge, one that should be faced with perseverance, courage and patience.
When classes eventually resume, we hope to see continuous and on-going cooperation between parents and schools, particularly when it comes to guiding the next generation to cherish life and approach the world with a positive attitude.